Friday, October 23, 2026

Port: Muroran

Felt a bit of deja vu. Even in a brand new place.

Almost three years ago, we took our first cruise. Both port stops were in Mexico. After the first port, the boys complained about walking so much. All they wanted to do was be on the ship. And they had already checked Mexico off the list, so they didn’t think they’d miss anything to opt out of another Mexican coastal town. So Lucas and I checked them into kids club and explored Cozumel on our own.

This time, it wasn’t Mexico but Japan. But two port days in a row, both on the northern island of Hokkaido. So Lucas and I checked them into kids club and explored MURORAN on our own for six hours.

I actually left the ship three times during this port stop. When I was checking for nearby geocaches, I spotted a brand new one within close walking distance that hadn’t been found yet. Since the boys were still sleeping, I jetted off to snag what is called a “First to Find.” These are pretty rare for us, even in the U.S., so I was thrilled.


This one had a $20 roundtrip shuttle to a train station, so we used some of our onboard credit. We left at 9 am, first crossing the Hakucho suspension bridge and driving through an industrial part of town before being dropped off at Muroran Higashi train station. From there, we set off on foot to find a secondhand bookstore. Turns out, the store has shifted its focus to more of a hobby store. But Lucas was thrilled to pick up some games that Satoru Iwata helped create. Lucas wrote a book about The Impact of Iwata, and this was extra special since Muroran is Iwata’s hometown.

Some Japanese high school students were taking donations to write our names in Japanese calligraphy. This is the katakana script for Mary (pronounced meh-ah-ree). It is used for “foreign words” that didn’t originate in Japanese.

There are special cutesy busses to pick up kindergarteners. This one had Bambi characters on it (my first movie in the theater as a child!)



We went to a media store that Lucas thought would be similar to a Best Buy. But there were books! And I had to keep reminding myself that we didn’t want to load up on souvenirs yet (since we’d have to lug it through Tokyo to Osaka), so I only bought a few.

As we were walking toward Itanki Beach, we noticed a Christian church on Google maps. Curious, we stopped and looked at the sign. There are some elderly activities that happen on Thursdays, so we tried the door to see if anything was happening. Turns out, we got the date confused, but the door was in fact unlocked, and we tiptoed in and met the startled pastor. We ended up staying to talk with him for about 20 minutes and prayed for him and his congregation. We were both encouraged by his steadfastness and overwhelmed by the need.


We relaxed by the beach, marveling at the fact that we were sitting on a beach in Japan! We walked back toward the shuttle stop and were able to help some fellow cruise passengers who were completely turned around, and their phones weren’t working. 






By that time, it was well past lunchtime, so we popped into a tiny ramen store. There was room for about 9 around the counter, and the man and his wife made all the food right in front of us. We asked for a menu, and he showed us some pictures from Trip Advisor, and we choose one. (we later realized the simple Japanese menu was posted on the wall). Both of us really enjoyed our bowl of ramen (leaps above the cheapest packages at WalMart). Then we stood in a long line for our shuttle back to the ship.

We picked up boys and then took THEM off the ship. On my way to the geocache in the morning, I had walked through a quaint seaside park. So we walked along there, watching the seagulls and setting sun. We got our first Japan stamp (more on this later) and first drink for everyone from the vending machines.









I chose one of the warm drink options. It’s basically warm cream corn in a can. Ha!





Port: Hakodate

Our first steps onto Japanese soil were on the northern island Hokkaido in the city Hakodate. Unlike the Mexican cruise ports we had visited that cater to cruisers, this was an industrial port with shipping containers and nothing tourist-y or easily walkable.



And it was drizzling when we stepped off the boat. But nothing could dampen our excitement. We were in Japan! Finally! 


We took a complimentary shuttle to a train station.


Our morning went from drizzling and overcast

to clear skies

We walked through the morning fish market

One kind shopkeeper pulled out a huge crab for us to touch

We tried some dried squid samples

Our purchases. I picked plum crackers that everyone either loved or hated

Our first 100 yen shop (similar to a dollar store but with the exchange rate, it’s more like 60 cents!). Coop took a picture by the Coop sign.

These decorated manhole covers are everywhere. 


Our first 7/11 experience. Lucas is eating the beloved “egg sando”


Found three geocaches together

Cooper is sad that we wouldn’t let him do this claw machine

General rule that we didn’t follow- you shouldn’t pose by a sign that you can’t read! (It’s probably fine, right?)

Things you don’t see in Kentucky: Tsunami evacuation route

First Japanese toilet experience (more on this later)


Cooper is always looking for birdies!
We took a ropeway up to the top of Mt. Hakodate. Gorgeous view!



We spotted our ship!

First Japanese vending machine experience. Lucas sats the Sprite tastes the same

First experience with a gachapon (capsule machine). It’s a coin purse with the Hokkaido mascot bird.

We walked along the harbor then took the shuttle back because the boys were tired. But Lucas and I wanted to explore more!

So we set off on foot and walked 3 miles to Goryokaku Fort, a star-shaped citadel.

We spotted this cool heron multiple times as we walked around

We found four geocaches at the points of the star.

Then we had our first restaurant experience in Japan—revolving sushi!

Since it was dark, we got an Uber ride (my first one ever!) back to the ship. This was a highlight for me because I talked in broken Japanese the whole time with the driver. And when I couldn’t think what else to say, I’d sing a Japanese song. So fun!



 





Cruising Musings

Here are some reflection poems I wrote during our cruise. We're in Osaka now, and there's much more to say, but I feel like I need to write about what happened in Hakodate, Muroran, Shimizu, and Tokyo before I write about what's currently happening. But we're in our 2-month house! We love it! We love the location and all that we can see and do in such a short radius. We take turns going to video game stores (that the boys love) and bookstores (that I love). There are things that are difficult, of course, but we are loving the adventure of "slow travel" in Japan. We're definitely still in the honeymoon phase! :-)


10-3-26
Simultaneously
    I wish 
        I had packed less
    and I wish
        I had packed more
I wish I had packed less
    when my PACKED backpack wouldn't fit under the airplane seat
    when I had to also carry/pull some of the boys' luggage
    when we were on a standing-room-only bus in L.A.
    when we walked from hotel to Iowa battleship to park to terminal to ship   
    when our cramped interior room feels more cramped with so much stuff
    when I think about navigating Yokohama/Tokyo with all our luggage
    when I think about our days in Hawaii with all this luggage PLUS souvenirs
I wish I had packed more
    when it's already this cold on the deck (in October)
    when I get tired of the same shirts
    when I wish we had fill-in-the-blank
    when I realized how few pens I brought
        (yes, I know I can buy more in Japan)
    when I don't really have options for "Dress your best" night
Less? More?
    I can't have both




10-10-26
Living in this alternate existence
Can't receive texts from back home
Not yet to our Osaka "home"
Here in the in-between
    all-you-can-eat buffet
    fancy dining room
    shows and baby-sitting
        all just steps away
Here making temporary friends
    that we'll see every day for 16 days
        eating meals together
        kids playing together
        teens roaming together
    and then probably never see again
Is it worth getting to know people
    you'll never see again?
Here in this unnormal "normal"
    of not having to clean up after myself
    of not having to cook
    of not having to do dishes
The only cleaning I'm doing is occasional sink laundry
The only meal planning I'm doing is choosing cafe, buffet, or dining room
The only dishes I'm doing is setting out my dirty dishes for others to magically whisk away

Today is Day 9 of 12 sea days in a row
    My legs won't know how to walk on solid ground
And when we go back to "land living",
    we'll be on a brand new continent

10-11-26
Excess
Indulgence
Entitlement

That about sums up
    the general attitude 
        on board
Excess entertainment options
    You could go to activities all day
        and still feel like you're missing out
Excess food options
    Leftover food that would feed a village
Indulgence
    Dessert every meal because it's there (and you paid for it!)
    Bars on every corner (everywhere I looked, it seemed everyone had a drink in hand)
Entitlement
    Guests lined up to complain 
    The only time when we can act like kings and queens

I feel the pull of
    Excess
    Indulgence
    Entitlement
        and I have to steel myself
            to stay ground
                here in the middle of the sea

10-11-26
I don't think
    we can handle
        the extensive cruise lifestyle
Even with sweet time together
    and lavish 4-course meals
    and nightly kid-free dates,
        we still find ourselves bickering
            over screen time
            and sugar indulgence
            and parenting decisions
            and port day planning
            and how the other is spending time
                (which always feels lesser)
            and how the other is parenting
We have a ship to explore
    but a cramped cabin to retreat to
We have everything we could ask for,
    but our children find reason to whine
There's beauty in extended days at sea,
    but today (Day 10),
        we're struggling



10-11-26
The staff bend over backwards
    to accommodate our requests
    to always have a ready smile
    to serve us and make us feel special
    to clean up all our messes
    to plan a wide variety of activities and entertainment
And we love it!
We love the royal treatment
            the lavish lifestyle
            the break from "normal" life
            the unlimited options
            the reprieve from household chores
            the food (oh, the food!)
And we're chasing happiness
We embrace the indulgence of the cruise experience
    but when it's over
        we're left with the same problems
                                    and character flaws
                                    and bills and mundane and ho-hum
        which is why "the next cruise" (book it before you leave!)
            is so appealing
If I can't be on a cruise ship,
    at least I can have the next cruise to look forward to, right?
There's the allure of cruising,
    but there's also the stability of HOME

10-11-26
Simple, quiet reflection
    at the monastery
Loud, lavish indulgence
    on a cruise ship
I prefer the monastery
My personality may be loud and boisterous,
    but I crave the quiet
I think I want EXPERIENCES,
    but I really want peace
Sunset over the Pacific is beautiful,
    but I prefer my pilgrimage up the "holy hill" for sunset over the knobs
Here, I hear the late-night party on the Promenade
    There, I hear the chimes as a call to prayer
Here is indulgence
    There is simplicity
Here is constant busyness
    There is intentional slowness
Here, I have a husband and 5 kids to consider
    There, I can do and be on my own
I may be 3201 nautical miles plus 2,117 land miles away
    but just thinking of the monastery
        brings a breath of calm
            
10-12-26
Everything grabs at my attention
    even with my phone only accessing the Royal app
The temptation to spend money
                        to indulge every desire
                        to do things "my way" (like in the popular karaoke song)
                        to live it up
We may all be headed in the same direction physically
    but not morally or spiritually
We may share the same dining options
    but not the same values
But while the siren song is strong,
    I need constant reminders
        that I'm part of a different kingdom
        that I have a purpose and a mission deeper than temporary pleasure
There's more to life
    than the here and now
My sea day Bible study group
    has helped to keep me grounded
    but I don't know how missional and prayerful I've been
Too caught up in the going and doing
    of the cruise lifestyle

10-13-26
We're going to Japan tomorrow!
I've said that many times (even though this is my first trip there)
September 29th - "We're going to Japan tomorrow!"
    Well, we're driving to the place with the airport
September 30th - "We're going to Japan tomorrow!"
    Well, we're flying to the place with the ship
October 1st - "We're going to Japan tomorrow!"
    Well, we're boarding the ship that will take us to Japan
October 13th - "We're going to Japan tomorrow!"
    No, for real!
    We'll step off our temporary boat home
        onto Japanese soil
    We'll be immersed in the language
        I've been studying daily for a year
    We'll see the sites we've only read about
    We'll use the yen that we exchanged at our bank back home
    We'll be in the country we've dreamed of for 7+ years!
Dreams will become reality
Plans will become experience
Future will become present
    TOMORROW!!!

Port: Muroran

Felt a bit of deja vu. Even in a brand new place. Almost three years ago, we took our first cruise. Both port stops were in Mexico. After th...